Mind your own business, not your neighbor’s

“I preferred to do nothing without your consent, in order that your good deed be voluntary and not something forced.” Phil. 1:14.

The Church may persuade, but she does not use violence to compel obedience. Nor does the Church use violence to force its members to pay the tithe. There is a humbler approach in Jesus’ teaching to his apostles:

“You know that those who are supposed to rule over the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great men exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you.” Mark 10:42-43.

People who meddle in others’ business we call busybodies, and the scripture has nothing good to say about them.

The New Testament is harsher, describing such people as lazy idlers: “We hear that some are conducting themselves among you in a disorderly way, by not keeping busy but minding the business of others.” 2 Thess. 3:11. They are meddlers going from house to house with gossip “talking about things that ought not to be mentioned,” rather than being productive. 1 Tim. 5:13. St. Peter, calling them “intriguers” (or mischief-makers), classes them with thieves, murderers and other criminals. 1 Pet. 4:15.

Compare this condemnation with St. Paul’s exhortation to the Thessalonians “to live quietly, to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we charged you; so that you may command the respect of outsiders, and be dependent on nobody. 1 Thess. 4:10-12. There is a common thread here: Mind your own business.

As Hank Williams’ lyrical version wisely suggests:

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